Care doesn’t end when the scene does.
Aftercare is the check-in after a scene — physical, emotional, or both — that helps you and your partner come back down safely and feel reconnected. What you need can shift from one scene to the next, and it’s not always obvious to someone who wasn’t in your head during it. Answer a few quick questions and this builds a private, shareable protocol, so your partner knows exactly what you need — before you need it.
Takes about 2 minutes · Nothing is sent to a server · Share it with a partner or just keep it for yourself.
What’s your role?
This shapes how your protocol reads to your partner.
Physical needs
Select everything that helps you recover physically after a scene. Choose as many as apply.
Emotional needs
What do you need emotionally during and after aftercare?
Timing & check-ins
How long do you need, and how should your partner follow up?
Share this with
your partner.
Give them the link before your next scene. They’ll see exactly what you need — nothing more.